Pep gets admiration because he spends big in order to create beautiful football that gets results against any opposition.
Mourinho gets criticism because he spends big and bus parks against the vast majority of teams in crunch matches.
Pep stays relatively humble throughout it all, mourinho criticises literally everyone but himself relentlessly including his own players, other players, managers, pundits, his owners etc.
Mourinho named himself the special one.
He attacked rafas wife, he's gouged someone's eye, he got a doctor the sack because she did her job. What a dick.
You lot focus on the finance side of it and yes they're just as bad as eachother in that respect but there are plenty of reasons why mourinho wilfully goes over the top of that and people don't like him.
In short, he's a massive d***head and takes pride in behaving like one.