I've just been watching This Morning and there was a couple on there who both agreed the guy shouldn't be at the birth and see her in that way. So she had her mum there instead and the guy went to bed whilst she was in labour!
Isn't that how they used to do it in the old days? The bloke had to wait outside.
Personally I wouldn't have had it any other way giving birth with Lily. I was worried all through pregnancy he would miss it!
The guy said he felt useless and wouldn't have known what to do. But surely all guys doing it for the first time feel the same?
My chap told me after, that when I was in the toilet he said to the midwife its his first time and he's nervous and doesn't really know what to do. They were great with him and now and again told him to do things/say things, but he did great by himself anyway.
I don't see the problem with the bloke being at the birth, surely its one of those once in a lifetime experiences and to do it together makes the bond between the couple stronger.
So what do you think, for both those with kids and without.