Adultery/Cheating

[StLGooner]

I've said this before on here, its human nature to always seek something new. No matter what it is, new music, new video game, seeing a new movie. Well relationships are no different, they get boring, not matter how much you love that person, you'll always be attracted to the possibility of something new, even if your current relationship is going well.

[Dejan]

When your bitch cheats on you, do this:

http://www.dumpert.nl/mediabase/963261/ ... r_mum.html

[Est83]

Combine that with couples getting toghether too young, too quickly, and most importantly for the wrong reasons in feeling insecure and wanting someone to rely on, for money/ego narcassistic purposes 'i needed him at the time bollocks' and mistaking lust for love. You get the epidemic of cheating.

These shows like Maury, Jeremy Bile etc... Don't help either as they put out the idea of cheating to the publics and keep it within everyones consciousness! Neither do crap R&B songs taking about narcasssisum and in general having your cake and eating it.

Finding someone to marry isn't just finding them attractive, they should be your best friend, you should hide nothing from them, you should have founjd out enough sbout yourself to know what you want and know you have interest for nobody but he or she.

Even if you think he/she is the ONE it must take time, 4/6 months even before your say your a couple in my opinion, you should use the early period as an open, very open relationship, see other people along with seeing eachover to narrow down and see if you really do like this person.

You should NOT use love to make yourself feel secure and cure all your demons. If your insecure, don't be afraid to ask for help from family or close, proper friends to balance out all your demons first, secure your daily life and future. Get your head down, then love will come.
Makes you think also about how many proper charities are avaiable for people without a family to help them since they are hugely vunerable to anyone who shows them affection.

Great advice, especially from someone who's not the relationship type

[elkanofan]

Thanks, this guy says it better however

[elkanofan]

[Futuo]

I've said this before on here, its human nature to always seek something new. No matter what it is, new music, new video game, seeing a new movie. Well relationships are no different, they get boring, not matter how much you love that person, you'll always be attracted to the possibility of something new, even if your current relationship is going well.

Must admit I'm a creature of habit.

I want some new shoes but only want same as I have already. Often buy a few of the same thing ready for when I can't get exactly the same again. If I find something I like I'll buy a few of them.

Same lass > one night stands by a country mile.

No harm spicing things up a bit - outfits, positions, places, toys etc.

[Trina]

I've said this before on here, its human nature to always seek something new. No matter what it is, new music, new video game, seeing a new movie. Well relationships are no different, they get boring, not matter how much you love that person, you'll always be attracted to the possibility of something new, even if your current relationship is going well.

Must admit I'm a creature of habit.

I want some new shoes but only want same as I have already. Often buy a few of the same thing ready for when I can't get exactly the same again. If I find something I like I'll buy a few of them.

Same lass > one night stands by a country mile.

No harm spicing things up a bit - outfits, positions, places, toys etc.

Totally agree.

[Dejan]

oh trina u sexy animal

[TheLittleMozart]

oh trina u sexy animal

She would eat you alive,lad!

[Zenith]

Who are we to judge this if both partners agree?
If they don't, it's another story.

[EvAMY-CRAIGLEEAFC]

I have never cheated, And never will