Soul mates?

[Est83]

I don't know if men are genetically wired to look at other women regardless of how they feel about the one they love.

Oh I guarantee you we are.

cracked me up with that one line! It's like "if you could be in my head for one day woman... just, one, day!"

Your post was very insightful though Gooner Girl, although the love and sex entwined thing is a little dated. Just finished my studies at uni and I was on a very female dominated course (at least 90% I would say), most of who were 6/7 years younger than me and very, erm... sexually liberated. Sex and love were poles apart for most. I'm not saying you're wrong, just that that generalisation might be reversing.

I do take commitment seriously and intend to keep my urges under control but I see what you're saying, everyone's different............ or maybe Inch is the only one being honest!

Inch holds the bar for me. The day he f**ks up is the day my faith in my ability to stay strong goes out the window! I'm counting on you Inch!!!

Gooner Girl, do you know or have met any women that struggle in this way?... if so, can you hook me up! Just kidding just wondered, part of that whole women's perspective.

Cyn... your suggestions have been noted!

[Inchpräctice]

Lol, that's a classic theory, Inch.

You think I'm making it up?
It's scientific fact I assure you.

[VCC]

Dr Inch has a ring to it,

[Gooner Girl]

I don't know if men are genetically wired to look at other women regardless of how they feel about the one they love.

Oh I guarantee you we are.
It's not just some lad's excuse, it's a biological fact.
When men are aroused by a massive pair of melons, they may think it's because they just love funbags and they can't wait to bury their head between them.
The truth is, what they're doing is sub-consciously choosing a mate and they're prioritising large-breasted women purely because the resulting babies will be better fed.
Something deep down in our sub-concious is thinking "My babies would never go hungry with that much food."

Similarly when men are attracted by a curvy behind (mentioning no names Gza) it's because they sub-consciously believe that the woman will find childbirth easier with her wider hips.
As for why we still look at other women even when we have a partner (who has already provided children in many cases), we do that because we're programmed to spread our seed far and wide in order to increase the likelihood of our species/children surviving.
It's 'survival by numbers' basically and it's a primal instinct we inherited from the apes.

And that is why Ladies & Gentlemen, marriage is near impossible.

I have heard that theory and maybe it is scientific (but i bet it was a man who decided that was how it is )

I think you're being a tad negative about marriage though! Not entirely sure of the divorce satistics these days but just as many suceed as fail from my experience.

[Gooner Girl]

I don't know if men are genetically wired to look at other women regardless of how they feel about the one they love.

Oh I guarantee you we are.

cracked me up with that one line! It's like "if you could be in my head for one day woman... just, one, day!"

Your post was very insightful though Gooner Girl, although the love and sex entwined thing is a little dated. Just finished my studies at uni and I was on a very female dominated course (at least 90% I would say), most of who were 6/7 years younger than me and very, erm... sexually liberated. Sex and love were poles apart for most. I'm not saying you're wrong, just that that generalisation might be reversing.

I do take commitment seriously and intend to keep my urges under control but I see what you're saying, everyone's different............ or maybe Inch is the only one being honest!

Inch holds the bar for me. The day he f**ks up is the day my faith in my ability to stay strong goes out the window! I'm counting on you Inch!!!

Gooner Girl, do you know or have met any women that struggle in this way?... if so, can you hook me up! Just kidding just wondered, part of that whole women's perspective.

Cyn... your suggestions have been noted!

I agree, to generalise that for all women sex and love is totally entwined would be as wrong as stating that for all men sex and love aren't entwined, i just think in your particular case, if this woman had these new experiences with you then she might have left more of her heart behind then you realised.

Struggle in what way? Having eyes for other men? I think lots of women do, they're just not as brazen about it as you men. If they didn't there wouldn't be so many affairs going on - it takes two!

Your missus is probably fantasising about some hot bloke that isn't you, naked and covered in chocolate right now - how does that make you feel?!

[gzagee]

I don't know if men are genetically wired to look at other women regardless of how they feel about the one they love.

Oh I guarantee you we are.
It's not just some lad's excuse, it's a biological fact.
When men are aroused by a massive pair of melons, they may think it's because they just love funbags and they can't wait to bury their head between them.
The truth is, what they're doing is sub-consciously choosing a mate and they're prioritising large-breasted women purely because the resulting babies will be better fed.
Something deep down in our sub-concious is thinking "My babies would never go hungry with that much food."

Similarly when men are attracted by a curvy behind (mentioning no names Gza) it's because they sub-consciously believe that the woman will find childbirth easier with her wider hips.
As for why we still look at other women even when we have a partner (who has already provided children in many cases), we do that because we're programmed to spread our seed far and wide in order to increase the likelihood of our species/children surviving.
It's 'survival by numbers' basically and it's a primal instinct we inherited from the apes.

And that is why Ladies & Gentlemen, marriage is near impossible.

That is some deep sh*t right there Inch. Move over Dr Robert Winston!
And it's true - I do like curvaceous women because I truly believe birthing is easier for them with those child-bearing hips (and the fact there's more "cushin for the pushin")


If the Mods ever bring back Quote of the Month this is it. For all 12 months!!

[elkanofan]

I don't know if men are genetically wired to look at other women regardless of how they feel about the one they love.

Oh I guarantee you we are.

cracked me up with that one line! It's like "if you could be in my head for one day woman... just, one, day!"

Your post was very insightful though Gooner Girl, although the love and sex entwined thing is a little dated. Just finished my studies at uni and I was on a very female dominated course (at least 90% I would say), most of who were 6/7 years younger than me and very, erm... sexually liberated. Sex and love were poles apart for most. I'm not saying you're wrong, just that that generalisation might be reversing.

I do take commitment seriously and intend to keep my urges under control but I see what you're saying, everyone's different............ or maybe Inch is the only one being honest!

Inch holds the bar for me. The day he f**ks up is the day my faith in my ability to stay strong goes out the window! I'm counting on you Inch!!!

Gooner Girl, do you know or have met any women that struggle in this way?... if so, can you hook me up! Just kidding just wondered, part of that whole women's perspective.

Cyn... your suggestions have been noted!

Your missus is probably fantasising about some hot bloke that isn't you, naked and covered in chocolate right now - how does that make you feel?!

Covered in chocolate, wait, where have i heard this before!!

[Inchpräctice]

This article sheds a bit more light on the subject:

http://maxcandor.wordpress.com/2008/04/ ... ttraction/

[elkanofan]

That makes sense then, my brain is more used to going to floor 50 than others

[Est83]

Wouldn't bother me Gooner Girl, I'm not the jealous type

The reason why I refered to it as a "struggle" isn't because it's simply a case wondering eyes or the odd fantasy, it's more than that. Although I will say that I have never seriously considered straying.

[ThereIsBearCüm]

Dr Inch has a ring to it,

and Dr 9 Inch sounds like a porn star

[She_Gunner_Wales]

Entertaining & interesting topic.

[dunkdafunk]

Who said anything about needing a pulse?

Don't mate, a work friend shared a story with me about her friend's mother. She went for a check up as something wasn't quite right downstairs, turns out she had genital worms... something you can only get from sleeping with dead people!





... her fella works in a morgue!!!

My mums boyfriends an undertaker

dont go there, mortis worms.

[dunkdafunk]

I don't know if men are genetically wired to look at other women regardless of how they feel about the one they love.

Oh I guarantee you we are.
It's not just some lad's excuse, it's a biological fact.
When men are aroused by a massive pair of melons, they may think it's because they just love funbags and they can't wait to bury their head between them.
The truth is, what they're doing is sub-consciously choosing a mate and they're prioritising large-breasted women purely because the resulting babies will be better fed.
Something deep down in our sub-concious is thinking "My babies would never go hungry with that much food."

Similarly when men are attracted by a curvy behind (mentioning no names Gza) it's because they sub-consciously believe that the woman will find childbirth easier with her wider hips.
As for why we still look at other women even when we have a partner (who has already provided children in many cases), we do that because we're programmed to spread our seed far and wide in order to increase the likelihood of our species/children surviving.
It's 'survival by numbers' basically and it's a primal instinct we inherited from the apes.

And that is why Ladies & Gentlemen, marriage is near impossible.

women too are designed to "spread their oats" too, they need a nurturing protector (husband and dad) but hunter alpha male genes are probably better for her genes in long run.
its is better for her children if there is a protector around, but the attractive stranger would give her children a better chanc at having his charismatic and strength genes.

[StLGooner]

Soul mate? Hahahaha, if my wife ever tells me we're soul mates, I'm going to karate chop her in the throat for saying such gay shit.