Hello.
Is it really my fault?
I just had a huge fight with my mom about our financial situation. I hate it that theyre this stubborn.
Basically what just happend, We had 40 euro's left and we needed to do some shopping(food). So my dad went to a expensive supermarket while the cheap one is just 5km away. Which pisses me off bigtime, since my older brother said that he can go to the cheaper one with the car. My mom reaction was: it was only 40 euro so it makes no difference which supermarket, which pisses me off.
We have financial issues for years now, i think since the euro came, so around 10 years or so. And they are just not facing reality. When i was on high school, We had problems paying my school every year, I never couldnt go on schooltrips because of the lacking of money. I got my last birthday present when i was like 9 years old. I want to go back to school in september and achieve something where I can be proud of. Thats another thing my parents just dont understand, I think my dad dropped out of school when he was younger, so did my brother.. They just dont understand that I want to go back to school and study. They say i had chances enough while i only went to 1 highschool and graduated it
Anyway, my mom want to let me pay the whole education by myself, I will probably so that.. but im I stupid by thinking that in a healty financial family, the parents pay the school?
Anyway, My mom blames our bad financial kinda on me, since i dont have a regular job and cant pay anything. I know, I need a job as soon as possible. But this shouldnt be my fault surely? Which pisses me off aswell is that my parents smoke and drink like tony montana snives coke.
My brother had to pay 1000 euros last month because we couldnt make it financially. Seriously, are they this stupid to admit that we have big financial issues or are I am overaggerating?
Oh yeah, We have a visa debt of 5000 euros aswell, which my dad denied for a long time.
Is it really my fault, or are my parents just blind?
Advice needed by people that have/are been in the same situation
/rant