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Re: Need advice about my wife

Postby TOP » Wed Nov 02, 2016 1:29 pm

Leave her
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Re: Need advice about my wife

Postby Cripps » Wed Nov 02, 2016 1:32 pm

Stay with her
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Re: Need advice about my wife

Postby Rastayouth » Wed Nov 02, 2016 5:40 pm

Way too much detail to be true, but if it is then she's cold as f@ck for telling you that much detail. Also it's not like it was a 'one-off' where you could rationalise it. She sh@gged the lad, slept on it, sh@gged some more with no hesitation or thought of you.
If this is all true then drop her like a man, to her face and move on.
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Re: Need advice about my wife

Postby StLGooner » Wed Nov 02, 2016 5:52 pm

It did kind of sound almost too bad to be true, like it was a movie script. Maybe it's information seeking for educational purposes. But if true, man dude, I feel for ya.
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Re: Need advice about my wife

Postby Rastayouth » Wed Nov 02, 2016 5:56 pm

StLGooner wrote:It did kind of sound almost too bad to be true, like it was a movie script. Maybe it's information seeking for educational purposes. But if true, man dude, I feel for ya.


The best sex, equipment size and finger incident took it too far. The dialogue to get that info must've been ridiculous!
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Re: Need advice about my wife

Postby elkanofan » Wed Nov 02, 2016 7:06 pm

I think you should leave.

Alcohol is no excuse, i feel as if somewhere deep down there is something wrong with your wifein that she couldn't help herself live out a lustful fantasy with a hot man when the chance presented it. If she was truly in love with you and knew herself enough she would of avoided the alcohol, appreciated the mans looks but stood well clear of that guy and made it clear her heart is for you but it seems she is still mentally too immature to be around.

Sorry Chris, but you must leave that woman and use this horrible experience in the future to look for a woman who dosen't value man attention so much in her life and values true love and affection instead as top priority.
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Re: Need advice about my wife

Postby Yago » Wed Nov 02, 2016 7:15 pm

You just have to do everything he did to her but better. Only way to save face.

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I imagine there are better places to ask for this kind of advice than on a football forum
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Re: Need advice about my wife

Postby Reverend Gooner » Wed Nov 02, 2016 7:23 pm

I feel for you (assuming this is true), that is a hard situation to face.

If you think you could never love the child as your own and that the resentment would eventually get you and you would leave then you should leave now. What she did to you was absolutely unforgivable but also thinking about the kid here. If you would eventually break up while you are a family you are setting up the kid for heartbreak, doubly so if they accidentally found out your feelings, triply so if you think you would walk away from them too.

If you leave now you can move on and eventually be happy. You're still young and starting again is probably easier in your late 20's than later on down the line.
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Re: Need advice about my wife

Postby Santi » Wed Nov 02, 2016 7:51 pm

Rastayouth wrote:Way too much detail to be true,



well she did also go from wife to girlfriend in about 7 lines of text.
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Re: Need advice about my wife

Postby StLGooner » Wed Nov 02, 2016 7:55 pm

Mesüt wrote:
Rastayouth wrote:Way too much detail to be true,



well she did also go from wife to girlfriend in about 7 lines of text



I caught that too, thought I misread.

The part about admitting it was the best sex ever and his size was bigger is hard to believe. Generally if she was trying to really work it out and save the relationship, I don't think she would have admitted that part. That will kill a man. If she wanted any chance of it working I think any woman would have left that out. Unless she really was just trying to show her honesty and thinking that might work, or he tortured her for the complete truth.
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Re: Need advice about my wife

Postby Royal Gooner » Wed Nov 02, 2016 9:44 pm

If you would like a Christian perspective on this, adultery is mentioned in the Bible as one of the very few times where divorce is justified.
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Re: Need advice about my wife

Postby Dejan » Wed Nov 02, 2016 10:06 pm

Read the thread title

answer: divorce
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Re: Need advice about my wife

Postby Dejan » Wed Nov 02, 2016 10:07 pm

Va-Va-Voom wrote:Has your father-in-law let you back in your office yet?


hahahah jesus totally forgot about that
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Re: Need advice about my wife

Postby Dejan » Wed Nov 02, 2016 10:12 pm

read it.

Even though its fake as f**k, I got the weirdest boner right now
massa come over bb
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Re: Need advice about my wife

Postby CynicalGooner » Wed Nov 02, 2016 10:16 pm

Hard to believe the OP. Reads like a weird reverse fantasy.

If true, you leave her immediately or cuckold yourself for life. You must then accept the fact that all women are whores, yes even the ones you think are not. Even the sweetest, most lovely girls out there. Whores.
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