Est83 wrote:ChrisSuperG wrote:Est83 wrote:Get him the f**k out mate!!!! Seriously!!!
You're starting to piss me off now, and I really struggle to keep my Temper. Give me your address, I'll kill him for you!
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He didn't even respond when I went to the door and made a blatant attempt to open it, it has one of those twist locks on it so he's clearly just turned it. Also i'm sweating a bit now because there is some media on that computer of me and her which nobody else should see. I might just go outside and make his rental car go off. He might even be asleep though so I'm not sure.
Ok, it's quite obvious that you tread egg shells through life trying to avoid awkward or confrontational situations. I'm kind of the same because I have ICD, which makes it very difficult to keep my temper IF I can't rationalise something that's offended me. So I have to walk away or keep my mouth shut 90% of the time, and I find good reasons to. You have no reason not to confront him though, not unless there's some history we don't know about.
Slyly trying to open the door, seeing that it's locked, and then just thinking 'ah man' and then retreating back into your shell.... THATS NOT ON!!!! You missed a chance to say a simple but assertive "excuse me", and now you're dwelling on it, getting anxious and worrying about what you could do.
Is he a large physically imposing man? Because I don't understand why you would consider maybe kicking the tire of his car and setting the alarm off rather than just telling him what's what.
If confrontation worries you, then I can understand your hesitance. The way he talks (and your wife... but I want to be respectful, so I'm not going to mention her again) does make it seem like he believes in some kind of hierachy, and that he's tried to (in a very passive aggressive way) tried to put you in your place. But the fact is,there is no conflict here,nothing can happen, you are safe inside YOUR house. So you don't need to view this as peacocking before going ten rounds. Simply knock on the door (if he ignores you, knock louder), then explain that you need the room. You're not lying, you're not being pernickety, you're not trying to be domineering... you're simply telling him you need the room.
Please Chris. I don't want to make homemade Napalm and flush that f**ker out myself.
It's not that, it's just I don't know how long they are going to be here and I don't want to make the rest of their stay awkward or cause trouble with the wife. He's been an asshole since he arrived, not in a direct way but very short and impolite. He's in his early 60's and I would KO him in about 20 seconds but if I fall out with this guy, they live in Spain, they cant just leave. With her mother talking about her birthday aswell, im really worried she expects to be around.
I'm gona go look in the window, he might be asleep.
