JordanTheGunner wrote:Haven't watched the video, will give it a watch later as am at work but this is my opinion on multigender violence.
I would never ever think to punch a girl, don't get me wrong I've pushed girls away from me but I would never think to myself "I'm gna fckin lamp her", however if a man hit a girl after they started hitting him or she was getting out of control then I can understand that.
I remember talking about a similar topic on here and I would say that if a woman wants to fight then the man should not get in the way and simply fight back, I've seen bigger girls beat up smaller boys and people just laugh about it after but had it been the other way around... MASSIVE STORY ON BBC NEWS, MASS POLICE INVESTIGATION, FINES, CHARGES, BAD REPUTATION, PEOPLE IN DISGUST.
this is pretty much my opinion
me personally i've never hit a girl
i've had girls who have punched me and if it was a man there's no doubt in my mind that i would have dismantled him.
I have to think who are the only other people that i wouldnt retaliate with violence even though i know that i would win (my parents or children) if the hit first. So in the situation of a woman hitting first the reasons why i didnt retaliate can come under 2 reasons.
1. I view their lives as more important than me (in a way that i view my parents seniority over me as more important)
2. They haven't got the mental capacity to be held accountable for their actions.
there is a 3rd reason that probably describes why i didnt retaliate
The disproportional social and structural punishments that are incurred when retaliating when attacked by a woman compared to being attacked by a man. But these punishments must be founded on either 1 or both of the above 2 principles. Which imo aren't conducive to opinions that place men and women as equal.
Men are less important than women and or they dont have the cappacity to be held accountable for their actions.
As i said earlier, had ray rice retaliated when a weaker man sucker punched him, a bit would have been said but he would still have his job and reputation. However because a woman did the same thing, her worth is either higher than a mans or she is unable to comprehend that if you attack someone that is bigger than you and stronger, their retaliation is likely to be more dangerous.